ok this is stupid question but how does a person know what their sexual identity is? how does one know one is "female" or "male"? can you please define for me what a sexually identified "female" is? is that influenced by culture also?
and in terms of gender expression is it just about external presentation or does it have to do w/ internal things as well such as preferred activities? and w/ so many women wearing pants now what is "female"? if i wear pants don't fuss on hair, paint my nails, or wear makeup does that mean i express as male?
this stuff just gets me so confused - why can't we all just be whoever we are w/o the labels?
ok this is stupid question but how does a person know what their sexual identity is? how does one know one is "female" or "male"? can you please define for me what a sexually identified "female" is? is that influenced by culture also?
and in terms of gender expression is it just about external presentation or does it have to do w/ internal things as well such as preferred activities? and w/ so many women wearing pants now what is "female"? if i wear pants don't fuss on hair, paint my nails, or wear makeup does that mean i express as male?
this stuff just gets me so confused - why can't we all just be whoever we are w/o the labels?